Can you hear me now?

Remember those Verizon wireless commercials in which an employee is shown in unusual places trying to get good cellular service - in a tree or on a rooftop, always asking, “Can you hear me now?”

This commercial seems sadly symbolic of communication in our modern culture.  We have never had so many forms of communication available to us, and yet personal communication has never been more endangered.  Can anyone hear me, we wonder.

Email, texting, social media networks, cell phones, twitter... the list of communication tools is endless in today’s world.  We have more ways of being in contact than ever before but many people are starving for meaningful connection with others. 

A handwritten note or letter could be treasured for years, but letter writing is a dying art.  Conversation has been replaced by short messages sent electronically, and texting, with its own abbreviated language, is the preferred mode of communication for most young people.  Brevity, convenience, and speed are valued more than personal contact.

To know and be known is a basic desire of all human beings.  Does the distant, impersonal nature of modern communications meet that need?   

          While we may use and enjoy many forms of current technology to   communicate, we long for a more intimate link with the people around us. Feeling understood, validated, and valued come through human touch, honest conversation, eye contact.  There is no electronic substitute for these.      

          Communicate.  Listen.  Reach out and touch another life.  You will be touched and changed, too.